Leading Oneself: From What, and Toward What
In contemporary culture, leadership is almost always framed as an outward-facing skill. We speak of motivating teams, influencing systems, shaping outcomes. Yet beneath all of this lies a more fundamental capacity — one so often overlooked that it becomes invisible. Before one can lead others, one must learn how to lead oneself. And once that truth is acknowledged, a deeper inquiry naturally arises: From what are we leading ourselves, and toward what? This question is not merely philosophical. It is the foundation of any leadership that is stable, ethical, and genuinely human. In the Buddhist tradition — and particularly in the Khyentse lineage — this question becomes even more essential, because leadership is not defined by authority but by awareness, compassion, and the courage to meet reality as it is. From What Are We Leading Ourselves? From Habitual Momentum Most of us are not leading our lives so much as being carried along by them. We move through our days propelled b...